(moving this thread into general discussion).
I see the co-operation between eBay and PayPal like this: when you make a deal via eBay, eBay takes a cut of the proceeds. This is reasonable, and what you agreed with. If you think eBay is greedy, argue about the percentages, not about them taking a cut.
If you pay using PayPal, then PayPal takes a cut (via the recipient of the money, above certain minimum/month levels IIRC) on the payment, which is also reasonable: you are free to use their services or not, or argue about their percentages.
But when eBay and PayPal team up, the combo takes a cut of the auction price, and then takes again a cut of the [auction + shipping] price. This is unreasonable: Their effort for enabling the deal is a (probably small) constant per transaction. It's none of their business if you pay $0.01 or $200 to get the item(s) on your doorstep. With eBay and PayPal's percentages similar, and lots of small transactions where shipping is an important part of the total, I see this as a sneaky way to double eBay's take of what eBay was already taking (and eBay wasn't doing bad, with or without PayPal). Trying to enforce PayPal as the only payment method makes it worse (thank god many countries have a government that won't allow this).
Also I place more trust in a normal bank, with a local office in my town, than some online 'wannabee-bank'.
(..) there's a lot of bad excuses in this world, a lot of which poor individuals can't do anything about. Let's live with it.
Strongly disagree with you there, D-Tail.
For the above reasons I prefer to avoid PayPal whenever possible, only use it when a seller takes nothing else and there isn't another seller with a similar item. Don't think I would ever use PayPal for large sums of money. If PayPal became the sole payment method on eBay, I'd move to other auction sites ASAP. :RNFF:
If everyone would act like that, PayPal would be dead in the water. So you do vote with your feet: if you don't agree with something, don't accept it as unavoidable. Simply don't use their services, don't put money in their pockets. Make them irrelevant.